Things Every Beginner Quilter Should Remember

Picture this, it’s 11:30 at night, you’re eight episodes deep into a Dr. Who marathon and your stack of 387 half square triangles. Somehow your stack topples over and before you know it, you slice through a bunch with your rotary cutter. Ok, maybe it wasn’t exactly that, but we all run into problems at one time or another. Whether you’re a beginner or have been quilting for years, we’ve put together our list of questions to ask yourself when you’re in meltdown mode.


Can this mistake become an opportunity?

Remember that every mistake you make can also be an opportunity to learn and grow. Sewing and quilting are arts that require patience and practice. Don’t be discouraged if your projects aren’t perfect; instead, celebrate the process and the progress you make with each attempt. We promise you’ll develop your skills over time, turning those initial hiccups into funny stories you tell later at retreat.

Is the problem me? Or my project? 

One of the worst feelings when you’re working on a project is when you run into problems and you can’t figure out why things are going wrong, let alone how to solve them. You can avoid some of that before it starts by choosing manageable projects that match your skill level. Use them to help build confidence and a strong foundation in your sewing techniques. Gradually, you can challenge yourself with more intricate projects as you gain experience.

Or is the problem my tools?

Bad tools or materials are another frustrating problem that pops up and leads to confusion. It can be tempting to go for budget-friendly options, but investing in high-quality sewing machines, quilt shop quality fabric, good threads and notions can make a significant difference in your sewing and quilting experience. Good tools not only give you better results, you won’t be fighting them every step of the way to do it.

Am I in the right mindset to do (insert any part of the process here)?

Remember, Rome wasn’t built in a day, and neither was that feathered star. Sewing and quilting require attention to detail, and rushing through a project because your brain is on something else often leads to avoidable mistakes. If you can, take your time to read and understand instructions, measure accurately, and sew carefully. Maybe have some low effort sewing handy for when your brain just isn’t in the right mood. Your end results will be worth the time it takes to pause or do something that can handle less attention.

Is there someone I can call for help?

The joy and frustrations of sewing and quilting are uniquely shared with other quilters. If you don’t have a buddy you can call when the stitching tension gets to you, start by finding local sewing or quilting groups, joining online forums, or participating in workshops. Being part of a community will expose you to a wealth of knowledge, encouragement, and inspiration that can help you problem-solve and find your lifeline when the sewing gets tough. You’ll also find comfort in knowing that everyone has faced challenges at some point of their journey.

Am I being too hard on myself? 

As your sewing and quilting skills grow, take time to acknowledge and celebrate how far you’ve come. Whether it’s mastering a new stitch or completing a project you once thought was beyond your abilities, each milestone is a testament to your dedication and creativity. When you hit a bump in the road, take the chance to look back and see other problems you’ve conquered. Celebrating these wins will keep you motivated and eager to take on new challenges.

Do I want to do this or is someone saying I should do this?

While it’s essential to learn from others and draw inspiration from various sources, remember that your creations are an extension of yourself. You don’t have to do the same project as everyone else just because it’s the most popular thing at the moment. Don’t be afraid to experiment, try out new ideas, and inject your unique personality into your projects. Your sewing and quilting journey is a canvas waiting to be painted with your imagination and heart.


Remember that sewing and quilting are not just crafts; they are gateways to a world of creativity and self-expression. So cut yourself a break; the sun will rise tomorrow, Quilting Mayhem will open, and they will make more fabric to fix whatever went wrong today. 

Enjoy the journey!

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